Signature method

HEAL to COURT, step by step.

A path from healing to courtship. Most people try to start at the end: finding someone. But you cannot build something healthy on something broken, and you cannot choose wisely without knowing who you are and what you want. That’s why the order matters. HEAL to COURT takes you through six stages, one at a time, so that when the right person comes, you’re not just hopeful. You’re ready.

The six stages
1

HEAL

Process past pain, identify your patterns, and release what doesn’t belong in your next chapter.

2

IDENTITY

Know who you are in God, your worth, values and non-negotiables, so you don’t define yourself through someone else’s attention.

3

CLARIFY

Get specific about what you’re looking for, and separate preferences from purpose-aligned standards.

4

CONNECT

Learn how and where to meet aligned people, show up authentically, and pace the process without anxiety.

5

VET

Attraction is not the same as compatibility. Learn to observe character over time and read what you see honestly.

6

COURT

Build an intentional, boundaried, Spirit-led relationship that moves toward marriage with clarity, integrity and peace.

Coach Vikkie in a brown wrap dress, touching her hair
From Single to Chosen

Walk the method with me.

From Single to Chosen is my 6-month coaching programme for Christian singles who are serious about marriage. It takes you through every stage of HEAL to COURT with a structured curriculum, personalised 1:1 coaching, community and accountability, from where you are now to being genuinely ready for a God-honouring relationship.

Join the community

You don’t have to do this alone.

Join the RTWV community on Skool, a faith-based space for singles and couples to learn, grow and get support. Get teachings, honest conversations and encouragement from people on the same journey.

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