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  • 5Books written
  • 200,000+Online community
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Find your path

Where are you right now?

Choose your season and see where to start.

Heal first, then choose well.

Work through past hurt, define what you want, and learn to recognise the right person before you meet them.

Start hereFrom Single to Chosen
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Coach VikkieLeeds, UK
About

Hello, I’m Coach Vikkie.

I help people build relationships rooted in faith, clarity and purpose. I walk with singles as they heal and prepare, guide courting couples to build a strong foundation, and support married couples to restore connection and grow together.

  • Christian relationship coachCoaching
  • Marriage and family therapist and counselorCertified
  • Sex therapistCertified
  • Relationship coach diplomaCTAA accredited
Speaking

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Conferences, church events, workshops, podcasts and media.

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1:1 sessions

A calm room, wherever you are.

Counselling and coaching for singles, courting couples and married couples.

Services

Work with me.

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1:1 free consultation

A first conversation to talk through where you are and the best next step.

FreeBook

1:1 counselling

One-time sessions and 8-session programmes for individuals, couples and families.

14 servicesSee all

From Single to Chosen

My 6-month coaching programme for Christian singles who are serious about marriage.

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Signature method

HEAL to COURT.

A path from healing to courtship, in six stages, one at a time.

  1. 01HEAL
  2. 02IDENTITY
  3. 03CLARIFY
  4. 04CONNECT
  5. 05VET
  6. 06COURT
Books

Five books, one root.

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Decoding Him Right

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Cover of Decoding Her Right by Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun

Decoding Her Right

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Cover of From Scarred to Brave by Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun

From Scarred to Brave

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Cover of Walking Into Forever by Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun

Walking Into Forever

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Bridges of Speech

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Kind words from Our Community Members

In their words.

“RTWV have helped me grow in self-awareness and emotional maturity. I’ve learned to build healthier relationships, communicate better, and approach life with more peace and understanding.”

Photo of Helena OkekeHelena OkekeRTWV community

“RTWV has impacted me by helping me to continue to stand strong in my purity journey and helped strengthen my faith in God and to grow closer to God. Helped me to see more from God’s perspective on different purity topics and questions.”

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“RTWV has made me more comfortable with dating by equipping me with sound knowledge and biblical values to use while on my quest. I have not yet matched with anyone but I am hopeful that I will soon. The people I met were polite. The coach was helpful every time and has a welcoming personality. Each time it was wisdom, wisdom, wisdom being deposited and every problem solved.”

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“The Single and Mingle Support Group has impacted and transformed my single season. I’ve learned that singleness is not a punishment but a gift and a season of growth, discovery and purpose. Being part of the group has helped me heal emotionally, strengthen my relationship with God, and gain clarity on what healthy friendships and relationships look like. It has felt like a safe space for us to learn and share with each other.”

Photo of Joy KuriaJoy KuriaSingle and Mingle Support Group

“I am super grateful for Coach Vikkie’s yes to Jesus and her obedience to create this community, share her testimony on social media platforms and write books! Through her knowledge, I’ve been equipped to avoid many traps from the enemy as it relates to dating and relationships. Thank you, Coach!”

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